Iswarya – I had no idea that she would turn out to be one of the constants in my life when we started out. In fact, I underestimated her presence until I got to know her better. I met this beautiful soul when I was going through one of the worst phases of my life. I was so fragile that a small hiccup would tear me apart. My life seemed like one big bundle of pessimism. I couldn’t even muster the courage to greet new people I met. I hid behind the comfort zone of old relationships and past memories.
And throughout the whole nightmare, this girl made me a part of her daily existence. She would listen to my nonsense every day reassuring me that things would get better. It was tough but she held on without letting go. Other people would just hear and forget but this girl chose to listen until I got rid of my scars.
It requires a lot of courage to hold on to a person when they are at their worst but she did that as if it was an everyday habit. The ease at which she understood my turbulence surprised me initially but as I got to know her better I understood why she held on to me firmly. We both thrive on the same emotion – Love. Love has this remarkable ability to forge unexpected bonds and heals scars and that’s exactly what happened between us.
In a world, everybody is rushing to be part of the race Iswarya reminds me of a beautiful pause button. She’s someone who can savour life for what is without worrying too much about what lies ahead. No big aspirations or ambition just a life filled with love. There’s an inherent simplicity in the way she approaches life which is very beautiful. I wish there were more people like her around we wouldn’t have to worry about success-failure, winning or losing.
And to date, she remains the only person outside of my family who calls me by the favourite part in my name. There’s a certain joy in seeing a person do that.
Best wishes Iswarya. Cherish the love and hold on to your way of life. Good things await you.